Showing posts with label virtue. Show all posts
Showing posts with label virtue. Show all posts

Monday, July 23, 2012

The Perfect Woman

Yesterday my wife asked me to envision the perfect woman and then make a list of her virtues. She pleaded with me to have an open mind and not let it become a list of virtues she has or a list of virtues I wished she had. Here is what I came up with; order has no significance.
  • Loving, capable of being a mother to anybody, but not pron to spoiling
  • Faithful, spiritual, prayerful
  • Graceful
  • Intelligent in conversation, but not determined to win arguments
  • Humorous, but not raucous
  • Musical
  • Humble, but not shy or awkward
  • Confident, but not prideful
  • Capable of leading, but never desiring to [1]
  • Understanding of human emotions
  • Socially proper
  • Organized but no OCD
  • Capable of cooking every day without the family tiring of her food [2]
  • Frugal
  • Long hair [3]
"A virtuous woman is a crown to her husband" - Proverbs 12:4

[1] The wife in Legacy is the best example I can think of. She's able to take charge when she needs to.
[2] This doesn't mean she has to cook every day, just that she could if needed to.
[3] I added this after my wife pointed out that I didn't have any physical attributes in the list. I didn't think I needed any, but then I realized I always envision good women as having long hair.